I like this girl, but at the moment we are just friends. How do i tell her that I like her without ruining our friendship?
- There is nothing wrong with giving it a try. You can do two things, 1) be direct and tell her (not awkwardly, start showing signs first so she may know its coming) , or 2) if you don’t want to risk messing up your friendship, give her little signs that you may possibly want more than a friendship. Such as, reminding her how beautiful she is, holding doors for her, finding her interests and discussing them with her, ask her to hangout with friends often. If you do these things and eventually lead into more “personal” experiences, such as the classic late night walks around the park, than there is your sign that you should go for it. Again, there is nothing wrong with giving it a shot. Life is so short man. I WISH I would have asked more of my “friends” that I liked out on dates. Believe it or not, after talking to them now like half of them said they liked me too!
ok, ive been with my gf before for 3 months, we broke up, now weve been back together for 6. she told her friend that she used to think this kid was cute, so her friend goes and tells him that and he says the same about my gf. so her friend, being a f*cking bitch, gives the guy her number! then my gf starts texting him all week, and he tells her he thinks shes hot and all this shit every 5 minutes. but she gets mad when i say its weird. we talked about it a lot, and i do trust her with this, but the problem is i dont trust him. (hes cheated on 3 girls, so i know he might try something)
i just wanted some opinions. would you wait to see how it plays out? or just kill the kid?
i thought about messing this dude up, but i trust her and dont wanna lose her, so im just waiting.
- Dude. Be honest. A girl that is accepting texts from another guy that OBVIOUSLY has feelings for her, and is texting back as if it is just fine…she may not be good enough for you. If I were you I would directly confront this guy and tell him, “Hey man, Im sure your just being friendly and that’s totally cool, but out of respect for me Im gonna have to ask that you stop texting so explicitly with my girlfriend” (something like that. Be creative) Don’t be an -------- it’s always more rewarding to be the bigger man. If he doesn’t stop than confront your girlfriend and tell her that you are uncomfortable with the whole thing. If she is not compassionate and continues to text him, than she obviously isn’t too worried in making you happy. Beating the guy’s ass is only necessary if he is forcing the texting upon her, or if she is NOT texting back/is telling him to stop texting her. Since it’s a mutual thing, you have no right to get mad at him. Rather, leave it up to your gf to decide whether or not you are worth the respect. Girls are crazy sometimes, and will try to make it seem as if you are being unreasonable by asking this. YOUR NOT. You deserve that respect so don’t belittle yourself by keeping her as your girlfriend if she doesn’t respect you.
how do i "get in a girls pant's?"
- Unbutton them. But this is a romance thread not a hookup thread.
Dustin- <3 sorry ahha.
