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Matt Ogle

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Alright so ive always considered myself to be somewhat of a "hopeless romantic" but for the past 4 or 5 months ive really been maturing and actually working on handling my relationship and making my desired vision more of a reality with my "about to be" girlfriend Jenn (long story short we are basically dating but are holding back on the crazyness until we can get on the same page after some previous problems). ANYWAY, for the past 2ish years she was crazy about me and i honestly was too caught on another girl (and other girls in general) to really sit back and appreciate what i had. About 6 months ago i dumped her for no reason and she literally dropped me for 2 months and started a semi-hookup/semi-relationship with another guy. I then (too late of course) realized i had lost something great and wanted to go about winning her back the right way. It was so hard because being with her everyday had become a pattern and i was being super emotional. I ended up having to give my phone up for literally entire days just so i wouldnt text her or talk to her. But in the end once i started calming down i was able to win her back over eventually and we are back on track for success. I have no idea if she is the girl for me, i hope she is, but i said that about my last girlfriend and i really just want to enjoy my last year in college and not worry about the future. Which i think is a pretty good way too look at a relationship, especially at 21.

So, thread point - tell us about some relationships or relationship problems you guys may have. I understand some of you guys are too young/involved with scooters to get into girls but i also know many of you have. Let me know if you need any advice or anything as well, i've had so many damn trial and errors that i honestly have a pretty good idea of what im saying haha.

Andddd this is Jenn and I below :)

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TheLewisArsenault

TheLewisArsenault

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Well my ex feels the need to rub it in my face that I still haven't even kissed another girl three months after we broke up when she's been the biggest hoe on the east side of Canadia, and she dumped me for this kid that can drive(I'm about three years younger then him) and she tells him all my emotional "situations" and he offers to drive her over when SHE'S THE PROBLEM. So basically I'm pissed as fuck at her for telling him my personal problems that NO ONE really needs to know, then basically have him through sympathy at me. Then the only girl that seems to admit to liking me that I like, has a crazy ass on-and-off Bf that goes to Anger Counseling. So my two shits/cents for anyone really in their early teens is to not take shit serious, it just fucks things up.
 
tylerbillman

tylerbillman

Steel Member
I dumped my girlfriend of 22 months a week ago and I cannot wait to leave for college so I can start to forget about her. But until then it's tiptoeing and pussy footing around her so I don't hurt her feelings. Because I guess she's a liability since I had sex with her when she was below the age of consent or something? But it's getting to be a major pain in the ass and I'm generally super fucking annoyed about the whole situation. Three more weeks though and the situation will take care of itself I suppose.
 
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Matt Ogle

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TheLewisArsenault said:
Well my ex feels the need to rub it in my face that I still haven't even kissed another girl three months after we broke up when she's been the biggest hoe on the east side of Canadia, and she dumped me for this kid that can drive(I'm about three years younger then him) and she tells him all my emotional "situations" and he offers to drive her over when SHE'S THE PROBLEM. So basically I'm pissed as fuck at her for telling him my personal problems that NO ONE really needs to know, then basically have him through sympathy at me. Then the only girl that seems to admit to liking me that I like, has a crazy ass on-and-off Bf that goes to Anger Counseling. So my two shits/cents for anyone really in their early teens is to not take shit serious, it just fucks things up.
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no worries man! early teen relationships are PURELY meant for the excitement of having a good time, giving your good buds a brag or two, and expect a break up in the REAL near future haha. all girls that are under 16-18 truly have no idea what they want. they have not lived enough life experience nor have they had the time to really date around and see what works/doesnt work for them. conclusion : a relationship in any age between 12-17 will most likely fail. so treat the girl right, have fun, don't go around believing the word "love" everytime it is told, and you will be okay. LAST thing you need to do is carry on acting like a sore loser. woman look for MEN. even if it wont be easy, you cant carry on about "woe is me". keep it up man let me know how things work out in the future <333
 
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Matt Ogle

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tylerbillman said:
I dumped my girlfriend of 22 months a week ago and I cannot wait to leave for college so I can start to forget about her. But until then it's tiptoeing and pussy footing around her so I don't hurt her feelings. Because I guess she's a liability since I had sex with her when she was below the age of consent or something? But it's getting to be a major pain in the ass and I'm generally super fucking annoyed about the whole situation. Three more weeks though and the situation will take care of itself I suppose.
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Yeah man i feel you. I dumped my girlfriend when i was 18 because college was a month away haha. she was suicidal though (or claimed to be) so i stuck by her as a friend for a month or so of grieving, then it was time to move on. definitely let her know you are her friend and are there for her just make sure your pussy footing around her is COMPLETELY obvious that it is just a friendship. and there can be a 2 year age gap in Texas (im 18, shes 16. its okay) for the whole sex thing so dont worry yourself it is probally something close to the same where ever you are.
 
tylerbillman

tylerbillman

Steel Member
Thanks man, yeah that's basically the situation. I'm just not feeling the relationship but I am absolutely going to keep in touch for a bit. I'm making sure that she knows I'm her friend for right now.
 
Jordan Jasa

Jordan Jasa

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this is my girlfriend. she just doesn't know it yet.


matthew <3 ;)
 
TheLewisArsenault

TheLewisArsenault

Bronze member
Matt Ogle said:
no worries man! early teen relationships are PURELY meant for the excitement of having a good time, giving your good buds a brag or two, and expect a break up in the REAL near future haha. all girls that are under 16-18 truly have no idea what they want. they have not lived enough life experience nor have they had the time to really date around and see what works/doesnt work for them. conclusion : a relationship in any age between 12-17 will most likely fail. so treat the girl right, have fun, don't go around believing the word "love" everytime it is told, and you will be okay. LAST thing you need to do is carry on acting like a sore loser. woman look for MEN. even if it wont be easy, you cant carry on about "woe is me". keep it up man let me know how things work out in the future <333
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I will ahaha, don't worry man.
 
BrandonWeir

BrandonWeir

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There's one big thing I've learned about relationships over the past few years. If you have to REALLY try to get a girl to like you, then she's not worth dating. A girl who's worth dating will like you regardless.

If a relationship is even worth it then 90% of the time it'll just click. You'll start off just being friends and then once you get to know each other, she'll either like you or she won't. If at that point you have to say all kinds of sweet crap that you wouldn't normally bother saying constantly, then she just likes what you say, she doesn't really like you.

Trying hard to get a girl is only for hookups and one night stands, not for worthwhile relationships.
 
BrandonWeir

BrandonWeir

Steel Member
Especially when your my age. I broke up with my ex for two reasons. First off, we were about to go into high school. When you go into high school there's like 500 new guys and 500 new girls that you meet. It wasn't a trust issue I just didn't want the drama of meeting a new friend (who may happen to be a girl) and having my girl on my ass and vice versa.

Second reason, it's not like we were gonna last forever. We started dating in 7th grade for christ's sake it's not like we're gonna get married so I started to think "what's the point?" and that thought got the best of me.

Come to think of it, there's a third reason too. After a while we both kinda started to realize that we didn't act like we were dating at all, we just acted like we were best friends so we figured a relationship was kinda pointless.

I guess I was right to not trust a relationship going into a new school cause sure enough she found a new guy immediately. I was going to ask her out again too (and she knew that) cause I was bein weak and thought I needed her again. Like, when you have a girlfriend for a year and a half, you kinda forget what to do when you don't have one. I was even about to ask her to homecoming (even though I fucking HATEEEEEEEE dances they're the worst thing ever). But the other guy beat me to the punch. She said she wouldn't get into him, and that they were just friends. I was gonna ask her out like a week after. Then I hear through the grape vine like a day before I was going to ask her out that she just said yes to the other fucking guy.

It's INFURIATING to hear that kind of news, especially when it's from people I'm not really even close to. I was PISSED THE FUCK OFF at her and didn't talk to her for several weeks I was so fucking pissed off. The whole year I was frightened of relationships, and there were a few girls I could've gone with easily, but I just didn't have the drive to anymore.

I really liked one girl and she seemed to be dropping hints that she liked me. She would smile uncontrollably whenever I talked to her and a few times her friends would say something like "you gonna give him a kiss goodbye" and she'd blush. Plus some of her friends were pressuring me to ask her out cause they said she liked me and BEN JELINEK pressured me into doing it and that exploded in my face.... Lol fucking gay she said no. What a waste of time that was.
 
Carson .

Carson .

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I was in a 4 month relationship lately and then one day these chciks that were my gf's beat friends told me she cheated on me with this little ------ . I asked repeated times of it happened and she insisted that it didn't, but I didn't drop it and then I said that we should atleast take a brake. Then I found out it actually did happen, TWICE and I was like HE'LL NAW. And we don't talk at all anymore and when people bring her name up I'm like I don't give a flying FUCK about her.

Anyways like 1 week after we broke up their was like 3 partys in 5 nights or something like that. At every party she cried all night. And chicks kept coming up to me telling me to go talk to her. And I was like no. Once a cheater always a cheater. So I continued to have a great time and Whatevs.

The worst thing is, is that all the chicks that told me to my face that that's fucked up and I don't like her that much because of that. When they thought I wasn't looking or wasn't there it was like omgomg I loooovvve you so much! And I'm like thanks hoes. It's like a punch in the god damn face.

But next year imma freshman and shits goin down.
 
BrandonWeir

BrandonWeir

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Dirt Clod said:
I was in a 4 month relationship lately and then one day these chciks that were my gf's beat friends told me she cheated on me with this little ------ . I asked repeated times of it happened and she insisted that it didn't, but I didn't drop it and then I said that we should atleast take a brake. Then I found out it actually did happen, TWICE and I was like HE'LL NAW. And we don't talk at all anymore and when people bring her name up I'm like I don't give a flying FUCK about her.

Anyways like 1 week after we broke up their was like 3 partys in 5 nights or something like that. At every party she cried all night. And chicks kept coming up to me telling me to go talk to her. And I was like no. Once a cheater always a cheater. So I continued to have a great time and Whatevs.

The worst thing is, is that all the chicks that told me to my face that that's fucked up and I don't like her that much because of that. When they thought I wasn't looking or wasn't there it was like omgomg I loooovvve you so much! And I'm like thanks hoes. It's like a punch in the god damn face.

But next year imma freshman and shits goin down.
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