Flying to Michigan next Friday....................

[Spicy McHaggis]

With my new lady, , gonna meet her family but also gonna meet my biological moms side of the family(i'm adopted and never meet them ever and was adopted at birth). I don't know if anyone on here is adopted or anything or has met their birth parents. I'm 22 years old and I'm already scared shitless and shaking definitly need some ego boosters/get me ups/ and good wishes.

Give me advice if you have any.

 

[Rijomonkey]

When did you find out u were adopted? Congrats tho and good luck

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

i always have known and thanks man

 

[Kieran Mayhew]

Good luck man, I have no idea how I would approach even greeting my parents at first meet.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

my birth mom is not my mom. she is strictly my birthing mother. The people that raised me from birth are my parents.

 

[Kieran Mayhew]

Okay but your Biological mum, who you are blood related to, yet don't know at all.

 

[Dustin Nooner]

good luck bro. call me after<4

 

[tylerbillman]

Just be cordial, be yourself, and show them who you are. Worst thing you could do is TRY to act a certain way for them. "There is no try. Only do." You'll be fine!!

 

[Ben Moak]

just go with an open mind, if she doesnt treat you with respect dont do the same, if she is a bitch make her sorry for ever giving you up by being a better person than she, most likely the situation was that she wasnt able to support a child and wanted you to grow up in a better home than she could have provided, just dont go with a mindset already locked in on she doesnt care about me and she hates me because it might actually be the complete opposite.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

just go with an open mind, if she doesnt treat you with respect dont do the same, if she is a bitch make her sorry for ever giving you up by being a better person than she, most likely the situation was that she wasnt able to support a child and wanted you to grow up in a better home than she could have provided, just dont go with a mindset already locked in on she doesnt care about me and she hates me because it might actually be the complete opposite.

its not like that at all. she was 15 when she had me so i totally understand why she did it and i'm happy she did. I am who i am because of it

 

[Ben Moak]

alright man, best of luck to you.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

i was just hopping there was someone on here who has done this sort of shit before. Guess i'll just have to talk to mary jane the whole time there

 

[Bennett_J]

Hope it goes well, don't let everything get to your head, one of my closest friends met his biogical mother and she didnt tell him who his father was and he bacame so obsessed he actually stalked his biological father down and got arrested.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

I'd kill my biological dad if i ever met him, i know his name and thats about it. But i would literally kill him with anything in my hand or grabbing distance

 

[Bennett_J]

I'd kill my biological dad if i ever met him, i know his name and thats about it. But i would literally kill him with anything in my hand or grabbing distance

Don't, its the reason paul was in jail for 6 months... That was his mindset, before he left he called his biological dad with me in the room and he said " you can run but i am going to find you, peice of shit" cocked a shot gun and hung up, it really fucked him over in the long run because the call was reported to the police ect...

But if you ever meet him, be nice and don't seek vengance

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

i would take him to the bars then crack him over the head with a bottle and take the bar stool to his legs

 

[Kwaku J]

just be yourself dude. i'm sure all will go well.