Getting Bullied :(

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Jordan Jasa

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alright dude just listen to me, i'm probably the shortest kid on this site for his age and i know how it feels to be made fun of.

first, get a giant friend. like seriously, i have a 6 foot 4, 230 pound best friend. nobodies gonna mess around with you if your with him, and if they do, the big guy will be glad to help.

also just try ignoring them or laughing with them. works pretty well for me.

if its one of those kids who just will not understand you don't like what they're doing, well, just let them get on with it. theres a kid who ALWAYS has to punch, lift up, grab, or manhandle in some way everyone he comes across. in the case of him, i just let him do it. if you try to stop him from doing it he will want to do it more, and more...vigorously. this is also the kind of kid you want to avoid going near, like steven said.

i guess i just re-stated what steven and ogle said. they're smart guys, listen to their advice.
 
not to be a doosh or anything but if its really getting to you man tell an adult or someone nobody should have to deal with being bullied dont try and fight that may be "the man way" but you will just get in trouble just tell someone whats going on and they will stop it
 

idk47

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eh thanks for the advice guys
its kinda stopped a bit so yea
but the bit where u told me to fight him
what if he is like a judo addict ? and yea
 

Kakashi64

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Joe.H. said:
Yeah, so i'm small
and i get builled.
and Im not exactly mr. muscle so... yeah
and it doesn't help much that i scoot.
any advice...
thanks

Im small too...very small...under 5 feet....Im like 1.4m-1.6m.

I used to get bullied alot last year...I didnt do to much about it

But this year...if someone has a go at me...ive got like... two or three friends who like...woops there asses...

Make friends with big tall bulky kids...they will save your ass...
 

Roycee

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haha im a midget too :D
The best thing to have is lots of friends.
No-one will mess with you if you have friends.
Or you can just fight the bully's?
I did that once and i never got bullied again :)
Most bullies are just people who use big bad words, they can't fight and have a weak personality
 

JDBen

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Steven T said:
Kyper said:
If you've got no worries about getting in trouble just punch one of them in the face.

You probably haven't fought someone before have you? It's not the strongest guy in a fight that wins. It's the fastest. And with your small stature I'm sure you could kick someone's ass. Seriously I've met a lot of short guys I don't want to fuck with and I have a 3rd degree black belt in Jujitsu and still regularly train.

Or the alternative is what my brother does. The guy can't fight worth shit but I have never seen a kid take such a beating. Mainly because he's my younger brother and I beat him up all the time so the kid can take a shitload of pain. I remember one time. (My brother has a really smart mouth) some guy got angry at him and punched him in the face. And he just kept letting the kid hit him and laughed his ass off the whole time and kept asking him, "Come on, is that it?" "You call that a hit?" "Come on, you can do better!" That guy got tired and got scared cause my brother just kept getting back up and he ran off.



Aww how sad. I bet you werent counting on someone who actually knows Jiu Jitsu to post after you. First of all, if you got a "3rd degree black belt" that would mean youve been doing "JUJITSU" since you were...hmm well before you were born. To even get a black belt in Jiu Jitsu, it would take the average person with no Martial Arts backround, about 10-12 years. I should know, i got another 9 years to go. So no more bullshiit when it comes to that kinda stuff, cause you will only further make yourself look ridiculous.

To the thread starter, your getting bullied, because your allowing yourself to get bullied. The people bullying you, dont respect you. So make them respect you, this doesnt have to be done by fighting. Best bet if this is happening at school, is tell an authority figure. You dont want to be getting into fights or anything at school. If this is happening outside of school, and you dont want to deal with them. Try staying away from places that they go to...If your not where they are, and theyre not where you are, you can avoid the whole problem.

not that long, I'm a black belt (fear me XD) in Wado Ryu (yes its Karate XD) and that took about 5-6 years to earn, but I guess its not that special really, it's just the beginning ;)
 
dude wen u live in uk it a different thing u say anythin to a bunch of chavs theyll b on yur bak forever like i called so kids dad a fag.got and didnt no and now/ hav had for like 2 months about 30kids after me wantin to beat me shitles it a joke pisses me off so much
 

Steven_T

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JdAnnoying, i wasnt talking about Karate smart one.

Kyper was claiming a 3rd Degree Black Belt in Jiu Jitsu, i called him out on his lie. And he admitted it already. To get a black belt in any traditionally Americanized Martial Art, especially one such as a type of Karate, take a lot shorter than earning a black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Now go away..for a long time.

Since this thread seems to be getting ridiculous, with the whole Buy a GUN! things..and yea. Ill leave it at this. Joe it doesnt matter what he is or what martial art he knows. Fighting him should be your last resort, if it comes down to it and you have no other option but to fight. Than consider what he knows and try and use it against him. He is what you called a Judo addict, Judo is the martial art of throws. Meaning he has to get in close to you, to grab you and throw you. Your smaller, so your faster, learn to stick and move preferably with your jab. If you want, you can also start taking up your own martial art. Jiu Jitsu in this case would be a good one to counter his Judo. He is used to being on his feet, countering punches and kicks with throws and locks. So take him where hes not comfortable which is on the ground. Jiu Jitsu will teach you how to lock his arm, leg, ankle, or put him in chokes. Which will really make him look ridiculous when he is screaming like a little girl because someone a lot smaller than him is inflicting pain on him. However Jiu Jitsu classes if you are being taught under a good teacher, can get a bit pricy.

Keep in mind everything above about fighting him is a last resort. As other people said, there is no shame in going to an authority figure or a parent or someone. Especially if this is going on at school. Ill leave it at that. If you need anymore tips or advice on how to deal with this, feel free to PM me.


oh and JdBen you suck..at like, everything.
 
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