PRACTICE!!!!!!!!!!!!
That should be the first and last piece of advice you should give yourself before starting a "need help with ________" thread in the tricks section. You can't expect to learn tricks instantly because you were told how somebody completely different does it. They obviously took the time to practice and develop their own way of doing that trick which is comfortable for them, and you should do the same. This bit of advice is directed at almost everybody..
Seriously, I am 100% for making the tricks section only 1 thread, which is the new tricks woo thread, and anybody who posts that they need help with a trick in there should get a warning.