Spicy McHaggis
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Romance help thread.
- Thread starter Matt Ogle
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JoshKish:)
Member
Matt that sucks you got dumped, Ill tell her to take you back and nobody ever says no to me
But on a more serious note, I date no one in my town, we got shit going around in my school and all the girlls are disgusting
haha
But on a more serious note, I date no one in my town, we got shit going around in my school and all the girlls are disgusting
haha
From my experiences with women, a majority of them haven't been good. I've been cheated on by two of my last three girlfriends. Dated a handful but never got that spark. Just basically turned out to be a hook up here and there but got bored of them quickly.
But I also had to sift through the girls not worth my time to find my wife today. I've had a lot of trouble getting here, but it was worth the search since I know I can trust this one. Like I said, two cheaters in a matter of three girls is NOT a very good result. It created some really bad trust issues with women for me. I had walls built up around me for a long time, putting up a front just to kind of avoid getting serious with them. When I got cheated on the first time, it made me very self conscious about who I was. But in reality it wasn't me, it was the girls issue. And it just figured that the girl I did let in after I was cheated on by the first girlfriend, ended up cheating on me. One thing I had learned, was that being a hopeless romantic is a good thing, when you're patient. And you can't be afraid to just settle for someone, which was probably a fault of mine too. They always say compromise is the name of the game when it comes to relationships, I guess I took that too literally. But you HAVE to have your standards.
Wow, that ran on. But my outcome, I ended up with an amazing wife that supports me in everything I do, no matter how lame it may come off to most people, haha. And those girls that cheated on me, be it they were very hurtful, teached me a lesson or two, while making me a stronger and smarter person.
But I also had to sift through the girls not worth my time to find my wife today. I've had a lot of trouble getting here, but it was worth the search since I know I can trust this one. Like I said, two cheaters in a matter of three girls is NOT a very good result. It created some really bad trust issues with women for me. I had walls built up around me for a long time, putting up a front just to kind of avoid getting serious with them. When I got cheated on the first time, it made me very self conscious about who I was. But in reality it wasn't me, it was the girls issue. And it just figured that the girl I did let in after I was cheated on by the first girlfriend, ended up cheating on me. One thing I had learned, was that being a hopeless romantic is a good thing, when you're patient. And you can't be afraid to just settle for someone, which was probably a fault of mine too. They always say compromise is the name of the game when it comes to relationships, I guess I took that too literally. But you HAVE to have your standards.
Wow, that ran on. But my outcome, I ended up with an amazing wife that supports me in everything I do, no matter how lame it may come off to most people, haha. And those girls that cheated on me, be it they were very hurtful, teached me a lesson or two, while making me a stronger and smarter person.
loganbutler
Bronze member
ya me and this chick were talkin when she was dating another guy like she was cheating on him so he came to scholl and punched me so i kicked him in the nuts so he got pissed and dumped her.and shes fine because i really liked her but she told me if i came to her house i could get in her pants but i went and it was him on her phone. and i really liked her and we were making out by a tree and hes pssing me off because he is jealous cus all they did was hug. so now they are going out again and she thinks im hitting on her but im not and she told people i tried to get her drunk and do her. and its pissing me off... what do i do.\
EDIT: and i really love this girl and just talked to her and she doesnt like me anymore but shes the only girl i love and its hard for me to deal with it because thats all i can think about is her.
EDIT: and i really love this girl and just talked to her and she doesnt like me anymore but shes the only girl i love and its hard for me to deal with it because thats all i can think about is her.
No offense buddy but thats not love. I really dont have any advice to give other than back off of that girl because you pretty much just soiled her relationship with her last boyfriend. If shes cheating on him than why would you want to date her? It's not like she doesnt have the potential to cheat on you too. So my advice- if you really like her and want to have a mature relationship with her, dont talk to her much until she is out of her relationship. My REAL advice to you- move on.
Evan.
Member
I'm beating the shit outta my girlfriends little dwarf friend tomorrow, he deserves it, I don't suppose I need advice on any romance, just some tips I may not know on how kick a little hobbit's ass back to the shire, before you ask, I know how to fight, I'm looking for something creative. That's romantic right?
Also Trainer, I got you, and here's the solution, being your boy, Blueberry doesn't have to know, I'll hop a train to whatever the kids town is, find him, kick his ass beyond belief with a few master locks and a tube sock, and go home. She'll never know, you might not either.
Also Trainer, I got you, and here's the solution, being your boy, Blueberry doesn't have to know, I'll hop a train to whatever the kids town is, find him, kick his ass beyond belief with a few master locks and a tube sock, and go home. She'll never know, you might not either.
brandon kilbury
Super Moderator
Treat your objects like women and your women like objects.
...who in da hell are you. My advice to you is to get out of this thread unless you are seriously asking about how to beat up a dwarf. Than my advice to you is to read Plato's ethics.
Riley Hughes
Steel Member
just a little update, she canceled on the 2 dates we already had planned for the other guy, so i pretty much told her off hella. and she is all sad and shit because she says that she wants me and stuff but i'm not gonna be number 2. and above posts, dude, get over her. it's not love. if you feel yourself that attatched to her then leave, unless your in a serious relationship. and other above post, that's fucked up bro. chill your tits violence doesn't solve everything. damn
Spicy McHaggis
Steel Member
alot of these are to long to read so i dont even bother
Graham Todd
Member
Alright well me and this girl went out for 9 months, then she broke up with me to go out with this other guy. Now her and that other guy are over, and I still really like her and she likes me a lot. The problem is that even if she is dating someone she flirts with like every other guy, and sometimes cheats (never has on me, but on other guys) and yeah we all know how much it pisses you off when you gf flirts with like every other guy. I want to start dating her again, but yeah I do not really trust her that much anymore, and shes starting to become like a huge slut. Everytime I try to talk to her about she just kinda blows it off, and denies it all, when its true. And the reason I dont just want to start dating her is cause nothing ever works out if you dont fully trust them. But yeah I actually like her a lot but im just confused in what I should do?
Riley Hughes
Steel Member
annndd.... what help do you need? romance HELP thread bro
Honestly, i see no problem dating her, OTHER than the cheating thing. If she has cheated before than there is no reason why should wouldnt do it again. But yeah, judge carefully. If you date her, watch how she acts VERY CAREFULLY at the beggining of the relationship (before you get oober hurt). If she is super clingy at the beg., then she is probally infatuated. If she is still flirting with other guys (and i judge flirting to be touching and grabbing guys arms) ALOT, then she isn't at all committed. In any of those two cases you should probally follow Pete Bjorns advice and call the whole thing off. If she really is a "slut" and thats not what you like, than you probally should not date her for that reason in itself. Idk. In my opinion, i dont think there is a problem with it. Just go for it and dont get hurt in the process!
na your not. Trust me. Women around this world EVERYWHERE.
yeah..... complicated situation again but i pretty much just got dumped
a week before christmas, and our 6 months wouldve been on christmas eve :/
a week before christmas, and our 6 months wouldve been on christmas eve :/