all about finding the sweet spot, figure how much money you bring in and understand how much you can waste. I didn't used to ever buy stuff, but I also didn't have an income. But I make about 600 a month in high school, so I blow money on taking my girl out to dinner and shitty food and stuff now. Fuck stingy bastards. I have a friend with thousands of dollars in his bank that isn't saved for any particular reason, and he refuses to ever spend money to the point he'll inconvenience his life to make a couple bucks. For example, say we go on a trip with our school band and we won't get home till 2. We'll all be given 10 dollars, but he'll go hungry all day just so he can pocket 10 dollars, to add to the thousands he's not going to spend, just so he can have it. There are the extremes, find the happy medium.