ugh i need help with this girl.

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scootcb

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Okay if u read this it means alot to me and don't write any bs here cuz i just need help.


okay so me and this girl went out..at the end of the friday people were tellin me watch out cuz she may dump me.i asked her and she said no way. and then at the dance the same night she was huggin lots of other guys and talkin to them...i kinda got mad and was like 'what r u doing?!' and she kinda got mad too. so then we slow danced and stuff and i rly liked it. but then when we got home from the dance she dumped me and said she wanted a week to be single. its this week and today has been confusing. she said she liked me but she wasnt sure and then we go through the day and i was confused. then this girl tells me a couple of mins ago that she said she didnt like me and wasn't gonna go out with me again. i called her and asked her. she hung up and didnt answer .. so i just IMed my friend and asked for him to text her. she said 'dinner.' thats it. so i am really confused right now.. any help or suggestions would be great.


Thanks if u read and give me some suggestions!! it means alot.
 
Aaron

Aaron

Silver Member
She's a girl.
(No offence to shelby, margaret etc)
But they will really eff you around if you give them the chance. Its pretty much natural, there's nothing you can do to change or stop it, your just going to have to live with it...
Finding a girl the opposite to this is pretty hard, but when you do it'll be all good.

Also, if you have a girlfriend, LET HER talk and hug other guys, if she's not going up and sticking her tongue down their throat, then talking to them, its fine, let her go..
If you're really paranoid about your girl talking to other guys, go and stand with her, and actually act interested in the conversation just to keep an eye on whatever.
Hopefully i've helped.
 
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scootcb

Member
AaronBransdon. said:
She's a girl.
(No offence to shelby, margaret etc)
But they will really eff you around if you give them the chance. Its pretty much natural, there's nothing you can do to change or stop it, your just going to have to live with it...
Finding a girl the opposite to this is pretty hard, but when you do it'll be all good.

Also, if you have a girlfriend, LET HER talk and hug other guys, if she's not going up and sticking her tongue down their throat, then talking to them, its fine, let her go..
If you're really paranoid about your girl talking to other guys, go and stand with her, and actually act interested in the conversation just to keep an eye on whatever.
Hopefully i've helped.
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ya thanks .. i told her if she asked me out ill be rly laid back... and stuff she said yeah me two. but .. idk right now.. thanks man !
 
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razorrider48

Member
well bro
if shes saying one thing then saying another thing
and just flip flopping her mind
its not worth it
its happened to me many of times
you just gotta wait for that right girl
but when you do find her
dont rush anything
dont tell her what to do
dont keep her from her friends
ive been talking to this girl for three or four months
and we still arent together
just wait for her to be ready then everything should fall into place
 
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scootcb

Member
ryan hockwald said:
well bro
if shes saying one thing then saying another thing
and just flip flopping her mind
its not worth it
its happened to me many of times
you just gotta wait for that right girl
but when you do find her
dont rush anything
dont tell her what to do
dont keep her from her friends
ive been talking to this girl for three or four months
and we still arent together
just wait for her to be ready then everything should fall into place
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thanks alot dude im gonna do tht with her maybe cuz shes like perfect and stuff and she just called me and said she doesnt kno if she likes me and its annoyin tht im getting ppl to ask her cuz she wont answer her cell.. but rly thanks im gonna do tht!
 
Kyper

Kyper

Member
Screw it. Move on and deal. I'm guessing you're like 14? When I was your age (wow can't believe I just said that...) I got my first real sporty bike (500R) and spent weeks and weeks working on it. I would ride every day and it made me feel alive and I loved it. I didn't really start dating hardcore until college which is where I've been with my girl of almost a year now.

The point I'm trying to make is that, you're young dude. Shit's gonna happen and you're not gonna get a girl that's really serious until later. If you want a serious relationship go ahead and try. But you're young. Your heart is gonna get raped and you will feel bad. Shit is gonna happen you just have to learn to live with it if a relationship is that important to you. That's the reason I rode so much and worked on my bike all the time. It kept me focused on getting to college and I didn't have to deal with the drama and bullshit.

Do what you want, but this girl isn't into you and it's better if you just let it go and move on. It's gonna take time. Months, maybe years (I dated one girl in High School that took me 2 years to get over. I think I dated maybe 3 girls in HS.) But don't pine away. That's just dumb. Find a hobby that keeps your mind occupied so you don't think about her. Seriously. Girls at your age are gonna be just plain stupid.

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's life dude. Shit happens.
 
Scott Trainer

Scott Trainer

Super Moderator
Staff member
almost the exact same thing happened to me
in my case her friends didnt like me so they kept telling me that she hated me. but she said it wasnt true, eventually we got back together

but dude, sometimes girls r just confusing.
just ask her straight out, wtf is goin on? is there a chance we could get back together, or should i stop worrying about it?

lol, this thread is like Dr. Phil: SR style!
 
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scootcb

Member
Kyper said:
Screw it. Move on and deal. I'm guessing you're like 14? When I was your age (wow can't believe I just said that...) I got my first real sporty bike (500R) and spent weeks and weeks working on it. I would ride every day and it made me feel alive and I loved it. I didn't really start dating hardcore until college which is where I've been with my girl of almost 3 years now.

The point I'm trying to make is that, you're young dude. Shit's gonna happen and you're not gonna get a girl that's really serious until later. If you want a serious relationship go ahead and try. But you're young. Your heart is gonna get raped and you will feel bad. Shit is gonna happen you just have to learn to live with it if a relationship is that important to you. That's the reason I rode so much and worked on my bike all the time. It kept me focused on getting to college and I didn't have to deal with the drama and bullshit.

Do what you want, but this girl isn't into you and it's better if you just let it go and move on. It's gonna take time. Months, maybe years (I dated one girl in High School that took me 2 years to get over. I think I dated maybe 3 girls in HS.) But don't pine away. That's just dumb. Find a hobby that keeps your mind occupied so you don't think about her. Seriously. Girls at your age are gonna be just plain stupid.

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's life dude. Shit happens.
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i hear u dude thanks.
 
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scootcb

Member
TRAINER said:
almost the exact same thing happened to me
in my case her friends didnt like me so they kept telling me that she hated me. but she said it wasnt true, eventually we got back together

but dude, sometimes girls r just confusing.
just ask her straight out, wtf is goin on? is there a chance we could get back together, or should i stop worrying about it?

lol, this thread is like Dr. Phil: SR style!
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ya i should wait it out and see what happens. thanks.
 
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dre

Member
GriffinB. said:
how old are you?
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That's exactly what I thought..


From the way that you/this girl is acting I am assuming that you are still at an age where immaturity prevails and thus there should be no point in taking any relationship you have seriously for the next few years. And btw dude, there's plenty of fish in the sea - if one girl is screwing with you, there's no reason whatsoever to try and change her because it won't happen, so just move on.
 
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idk47

Steel Member
She's not worth your time, find a girl who wants you, not wants to fuck around with your head cuz she can.
 
Matt Dibble

Matt Dibble

M3MB3R
Staff member
meh im way jealous when it comes to my girlfriend. i dated a girl beginning of summer, and she started to hang out with another guy a couple times a week. i was jealous as hell. they both said nothing was happeneing and that they were just chillin and whatnot. then i guess they ended up at the same party and slept next to each other on the floor... and that was it. fuck that. dumped haha.

she was so perfect too, just wanted to hang out with other guys too much for my liking... whatever.

sorry about random rant too.
 
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