Help with girlfriend

[zprestoe]

So Yeah im a christian, and most things in this thread will sound complety stupid for you, but im being honest, to myself and my religion.
SO im a christian, and my (ex)girlfriend isnt. Ive been having talks to my youth leaders and they are telling me its hard to have a non christian girlfriend, and i comletely agree.
We both have different morals and we want different things out of relationships too.
So yeh. Last night GOD told me i have to brake up with her.
SO today ive been feeling crap.
and i finaly did it this arvo. i feel terribly and still love her so much.
but i feel its right lojng term.

What do you guys think about my desicion?

 

[Mattt.C]

Totally would have done the same thing. Nothing more important than God and pleasing him. Like you said its better in the long term, the long long long term. !sad

 

[zprestoe]

Thanks so much matt.

 

[Manzie]

To be honest, I think worshipping God is an pretty honourable thing, as long as it doesn't affect other people in bad ways. If you love her, then stay with her, because, to be honest, God telling you to break up with her is a pretty damn poor excuse. To her, and yourself.

 

[Steven_T]

Its reasons like this that make me stay away from any religions. If i was ever at the point, where i would choose my religion..over someone that i Love, wow.. to ME thats horrible. Anyways your young, and impressionable, so do what you want. Despite what people think, feeling so strongly about anything, even if it is a religion, and making big decisions like that is very respectable. If you feel like you made the right decision, and your happy in the end with your choice, then you made the right one.

 

[Jdbug_rob]

what do you mean when you say god told you to?
you saw god?

 

[Pete Pachota]

Loving people is pretty much what God and religion in general sums up to. If religion makes it impossible for you to love someone, you're definitely doing it the wrong way.

 

[Matt Ogle]

Loving people is pretty much what God and religion in general sums up to. If religion makes it impossible for you to love someone, you're definitely doing it the wrong way.

Thats not at all the whole picture of it all Pete, atleast not from my perspective.

Your young, so its good your learning this while your young. It IS possible to marry a non-christian if you are a christian, but ultimately there will always be conflict if she is narrow minded, or just doesnt care. There is alot of conflict and hardship with what you are probally going through, but what you did was the mature way of doing things. Give yourself healing time, and if you are truely committed to your religion than learn from because you can fall in love with anyone, christian or non-christian, and breaking it off once your truly in love is a hard task to do.
Sorry if that didnt make sense, im actually giong to religion class right now haha.

 

[ben-pat-bro]

what do you mean when you say god told you to?
you saw god?

yes and was it baby jesus
but seriously zack your a retard
dont dump a chick cause of god
if i were you id be begging for her back

 

[Aaron]

what do you mean when you say god told you to?
you saw god?

yes and was it baby jesus
but seriously zack your a retard
dont dump a chick cause of god
if i were you id be begging for her back

Wow dude...
If your not christian you don't have the right to say that, and if you are christian you STILL don't have the right to say that..
Its narrow-minded kids like you that piss everyone off on this site..

 

[Brian Murphy]

did she put out i woulda kept her for the sexy time

 

[Corey]

idc how into religion anyone is, but love has nothing to do with it. my mom is christian and my dad is jewish...theyre inlove, period. dont dump her.
everyone grows up with different morals and beliefs, with or without religion. thats what makes everyone unique...youre gonna dump her for being unique?
let her be herself and you be yourself...if you LOVE her like you say you do, u wouldnt let this shit get in your way.

 

[Tylerr.]

i kinda agree with you zac.
but i would go out with a chick who isnt christian at this age.
i wouldnt marry or get really involed with a non chrsitian girl when im older though.
i mean just have fun now while you can

 

[qwxor]

i think this is why religion is the stupidest thing ever

 

[scootcb]

I mean i respect your religion.. but why would god just want you to break up with her period?? I wouldn't let god tell me to not love someone... but idk.. what did he say?? just plain out break up? cuz that is a MAJOR bad excuse no offence.
GOOD LUCK MAN

 

[Jordan Jasa]

I mean i respect your religion.. but why would god just want you to break up with her period?? I wouldn't let god tell me to not love someone... but idk.. what did he say?? just plain out break up? cuz that is a MAJOR bad excuse no offence.
GOOD LUCK MAN

he would tell him to break up with him because...they aren't meant for each other.

everything i wanted to say has already been said pretty much. i thought you made the right choice dude.

 

[dre]

did she put out i woulda kept her for the sexy time

hahahahahaahahahaahaha, murphy, can you please post more often ahaha



Back on topic though, everyone has their own opinion of things, so I'm not saying I'm right, but my two cents is that you should just clear your mind of the whole religion thing for a minute and think to yourself, "do I not want to be with this girl anymore because of who she is, or do I not want to be with this girl because she is not a part of my religion and my youth leaders told me it was a bad idea." Obviously if she doesn't respect your beliefs and who you are, then why bother, but it seems to me as if you dumped her for no other reason than that her values conflict with yours and not because she is narrow-minded, not a good person, etc. Also, the fact that you still want to be with her kinda reinforces my point - if you like her as a person, and she likes you back for who you are, both your respective religions/moral beliefs should have NOTHING to do with influencing the direction of your relationship. Also, as other people said, mad respect for making a decision like that, and even though I don't agree with it, that is a TOUGH thing to follow through with man..

 

[ghost24]

I think this is totally stupid.

"Ey sorry baby I gotta break up with you cuz my imaginary friend is telling me to"

 

[Griffin]

^ lmao.

I mean... I'm christian but what you did was just not a good move.

 

[Scott Trainer]

did she put out i woulda kept her for the sexy time

lmao, leave it to murph
hes talking about morals and god (which is respectable and understandable) then u get this ^