Nick Granger said:
yohanan i have lost complete respect for you. i thought you would atleast be a mature adult since your a parent. but im sorry you are the biggest fuck up ever. you have a kid. take some responsibility and end all the bullshit with your life and fucking hope he turns out better than you. that shit will eventually mess you up.
what if your drinking, go out, and die in a car crash or some other act of bad judgment. you kid will live with no fucking father you inconsiderate asshole. you have responsibilites for your whole family now. dont screw it up with bullshit like drugs or alcohol. i seriously hate you so fucking much. be a man and grow up
yes, fucking owned.
that guy seriously has been pissing me off on quite a few things..
Choosing not to do certain things demands alot of restraint and i respect any person who does so.
Doing anything that could potentially mess you up is
never a good thing, but for some people it may be a necessary part of learning.
most everything has its drawbacks and it will get you reguardless if you let it, i dont care if you think you can control how much of it you do, every single one of my friends who started with one thing ended up doing something 10 times worse later.
you might hear that its justifiable by your friends or others, but most of the time they are just trying to ease in someone else to do it with, security.
Think about who you hear most of this stuff from, and i encourage you to look it up for yourself before you even think twice about it.
and finally, drinking/smoking doesent mean youre a bad person, hell no.. so dont think differently of those who do, just make sure they know what they are doing if you care about them.